I am happy because I am assertive. I take control of my life. If there are things I don't like, I do something about them. I don't put up with things. If there's a problem, I confront it. I don't just believe what I am told. I research things. I stand up for myself and others.
So when I am talking about being happy, it is from this place of power, self-confidence and self-belief. So when I say, you can be happy. I mean you can be all those things and then I'm sure you would feel as happy as I do.